Homewrecker; (ii)

In addition to what has been going on, one thing I don't condone is losing objective and letting your emotions get the better of you.

Take the current Z, A & Y's saga. Hoards of strangers spamming Z's FB page with expletives and opinions on her privates and labels that could be true but uncalled for.

If you are so unhappy with whats going on, how does calling people names help? Seriously. Make her feel bad? Make her feel like shit? How different are we as compared to her then? Her lack of judgment and her actions caused immense grief to someone. Should we not be the better person to not do the same?

We feel unjust for Y, yes. But like what I said, the only true way to be able to get the ball rolling is not to heap vulgarities and being totally uncouth.

Z is choosing to be silent, so that all these will soon blow over. After it has somewhat subside, she will then make her move (though I don't know what). The only way for this to have any movement at all now is to "boycott" everything she represents. To show that you do not condone such acts too. That companies choosing to still endorse her, would then mean that they too are acceptable of such behaviours. And hence if so, we do not patronise them too. Simple as that. Why would any companies want to suffer loses or engage the services of someone who is then unable to assist them in profit making?

Its her life, yes. Her friends can say that she is not accountable to us in any way. But in the same manner we are upset when we witness Alex Ong pushing the old woman off the bus, its the exact same reason why we are pissed with what is going on with Z and her manner of handling the situation now.

Maybe the old woman aggravated him, but we know that no matter what it is still wrong for him to push the old woman down. Wrong means wrong. You don't have to make excuses for why you did it. But when you are wrong, and all you can do is a feeble attempt of "Hi All, there r untrue things bein said abt me. I leave it to ur good senses to choose what to believe. Thks to those who keep faith in me."

Like I mentioned before, its her choice if she still feels that she does not need to answer to anybody about her actions, whatever it is. But she cannot expect people to just take her above tweet and stop talking about her. If she doesn't wanna do any explanation, she can't blame the public for taking whats already out there and make a stand to "boycott" her. 

Peace out.

Homewrecker

I said I wouldn't cash in on whats happening now, and I am going to try and stay true with it. But I just can't help writing about it. But I won't mention names and all. Just my 2 cents.

After everything that has transpired, I don't think Z has anything to say because there is none. The whole fucking bowl of water is black with ink, how do you suppose she get the ink out? There is no way. 

It may be her life, but she chose to publicise it. She chose to have a side career as a blogger which is obviously, not private. If you want to share your life, then chances are people are going to be curious about every damn aspect. When something like this happens, you don't just avoid the whole damn thing like "whoa this is my personal life, I don't need to answer to whoever." 

But if she wants to, she can. But why should people who read her blog, the people who are the cause of her side income, continue giving her support? She is a damn blogger for God's sake! She needs your hits (nobody gives a rat's ass how these hits came from) to earn, to get sponsors, etc! So by pasting her blog, her FB page, her twitter, you are just helping her get more hits. 

If you are really keen to know, google is your best friend. I have to admit, as humans , we are just naturally curious to know the unknown. And I am pretty sure with me writing this is all the more tempting to know whats going on, that has thrown the online world into a angry hot mess since last night.Google. Or just search "Alvin & Yuki" on FB and you got your thing. But just don't, patronise any of her blog, Instagram or Twitter.

Why? Why am I so adamant on this? 

I believe what she did is just so wrong in so many ways. And this is not the first time she did it. She did it at least one other time other than this time. So it goes to show that she thinks its perfectly alright for her to fight for what she wants! Its only alright to fight for what you want if no one gets hurt. But obviously nothing else matters to her but herself.

The first time it happened, XX may not have blown it up because she only knew of what happened to her friend years later. It seemed redundant and uncalled for, for her to just splash it over the internet for no rhyme or reason. But now it has happened again, so we need to take a stand, that this is wrong, and she should not be supported for this.

See. I am not going to take advantage of the situation and cash in and get hits too. I don't need it. 

/edit.
Slight disclaimer: By cashing in, means publishing her name and all the relevant links so that when people google, my entry and my blog will come up in their search and when they click, I get to earn from that. Nope. Sharing on my FB like all my other entries. And my FB is locked, meaning only friends see my posts. And even if this FB post is public, come on, who am I tryna kid, I am not that pops, what are the chances strangers are gonna click on my profile and link here? So yeps. 

Effy&Freddie

Collective Haul; November Edition

Finally got down to doing my Collective Haul Video :D But after I uploaded the video that I realized I forgot to feature my New Balance 574s :/ But then again I'm thinking of doing a Pairings video on how I'd pair my 574s. It won't come soon though, cause I gotta research and trial and error first :P

Instagram picture as promised on my OOTD previously wearing the woolen pleather sweater :D

And my Denim Parka hehehehe :P

Alrighty yo :) Hope you enjoyed my Collective Haul! Any questions (maybe the Running Man T) you can comment below or formspring me :D

Choosing to die; after thoughts

I have this knack for clicking on random videos on youtube. & this time I ended up watching a documentary on Euthanasia.

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Sometimes we get caught up as we grow up, chasing material things that we think is going to make our life better. How much money we can accumulate; how many friends do we have; are we going to achieve anything in our lifetime. Its good to have aspirations yes, but I think we tend to lose sight of whats really important; to be thankful for all that we already have. At least right now I can say I am guilty of taking Life for granted.

I guess sometimes we forget that being alive, and healthy at best, is probably the biggest blessings of all. 

Shoot; MyCanvasBag

Hehehe went for my second photoshoot for blogshop yesterday after work; please don't judge my fats (~.~)

Presenting MyCanvasBag! :D

They have returned after a hiatus with a bang! 

My picks include:

Unicorn Bralet! I have always wanted to get a bralet but its hard to find a flattering piece if you are not exactly toned. This piece however accentuates the right parts and conceals the fats well! Much love for this piece!

Second pick would be the black highwaisted pants! Its not sheer at all and super comfy! And the best part is ITS SO SLIMMING! I was damn self conscious whilst modelling this piece but looking at it now.. not that bad right my thighs!!! LOLOLOL!! Pair it with the bralet and maybe throw on a woolen shrug, you're good to go for a night out partying :D

Peplum has been the trend for quite awhile now and I never thought I say this but I think I might just start shopping around for peplum pieces :x I always thought peplum would just make my butt look even bigger than it already is but nope, I actually like how girly and professional peplum makes the whole look :D

MyCanvasBag is having their promotion now and you can stand to win an apparel from this collection just by "like"ing and "share"ing!! :D

1 WINNER WILL BE CHOSEN TO WIN AN APPAREL FROM PAST COLLECTIONS RANDOMLY CHOSEN BY MyCanvasBag. THE SECOND WINNER WILL BE CHOSEN TO WIN A $10 E-VOUCHER TO BE USED FOR THE NEXT COLLECTION. 

SIMPLY FOLLOW THESE STEPS:

1) Like our Facebook page.

2) Like and share this album and comment that you have liked and shared.

*hint* LIKE AND SHARE AS MANY PICTURES FROM THIS COLLECTION TO INCREASE YOUR CHANCES!

Winners will be picked on 19th December!

Go go go now! :D:D:D

Zoukout 2011

&the 411 is: 

12:30 to 2, Porter Robinson; 

2 - 3, Knife Party;

3 - 4, A Trak;

4 - 5, Calvin Harris.

Those are the only acts that I am really looking out for :D

Take a trip down memory lane with me.. Zoukout 2011!

Last year's epic Zoukout was so epic I told myself I'd be going, no questions asked this year. I even went to the extent of booking Rasa Sentosa in April for the 8 December 2012 when Zouk itself haven't even released the date of the event. Little did I know Zouk outwitted me and made this year a 2 day event. 

Initially I wanted to boycott the event. I thought the line up wasn't worth paying for and I didn't like it that Zouk seems to be trying to milk as much money as they could out of us.

However, try as I might to resist, I am officially going for Zoukout 2012 :3 Although I am only going for Day 2 BUT SERIOUSLY I CAN'T FUCKING WAIT. I AM GOING ZOUKOUT 2012 SHOPPING AFTER WORK TODAY, GONNA GET THEM GLOSTICKS AND SHIT. SEE Y'ALL PARTY ANIMALS ON SATURDAY :D:D:D